In person in Orange County & online across CA, MA, & OH
IFS Therapy
for individuals, families, & couples
Your inner world feels loud and chaotic—and you’re longing for quiet and calm.
Maybe you’re someone who’s self-aware—you’ve done the reading, the reflecting, connecting the dots.
Or maybe you can’t fully name what’s going on yet—you just know something feels heavy, overwhelming, or hard to keep carrying. Either way, it’s exhausting to feel pulled back into the same cycles.
Maybe that looks like…
Feeling pulled in different directions inside—one part of you wants change, while another part feels scared, resistant, or exhausted
Getting caught in the same patterns with food, anxiety, or relationships
Wanting to treat yourself with more gentleness, but feeling overtaken by self-criticism or self-judgment
Feeling flooded by overwhelm, numbing out to cope—or swinging between both
Craving deeper self-understanding and a steadier, more compassionate relationship with yourself.
If this sounds like you, IFS can be a powerful fit. It helps you understand the different parts of you that are trying to cope—and build a more compassionate inner relationship with them, so you’re not stuck fighting yourself.
What is IFS?
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a therapy approach based on the idea that we all have different “parts” inside of us—different sides of us with different beliefs, feelings, fears, and needs.
If you’ve ever felt pulled in two directions—one part of you saying “Yes, do it,” and another part saying “Absolutely not”—you already understand parts. That inner tug-of-war can be exhausting, especially when it shows up around relationships, food, boundaries, anxiety, or old wounds.
How IFS helps
In IFS, we get curious about the parts of you that are working hard to protect you—and the parts of you that feel tender, overwhelmed, or stuck. Instead of fighting them or trying to “get rid” of them, we learn to understand what they’re afraid of, what they’re trying to prevent, and what they’ve been carrying for a long time.
When parts feel truly seen and understood, they don’t have to work so hard. With time, they can soften their grip, release old narratives, and let you move through life with more groundedness and self-trust.
This work can create real shifts—reducing anxiety and overwhelm, healing trauma, changing your relationship with food/body, and helping you feel more connected in your relationships.
What to expect
We’ll start by getting to know your inner world—identifying the parts that show up most often and the roles they’ve learned to take on. We can do this through conversation, simple mapping, or whatever feels most supportive for you.
As we build more internal safety, we’ll help your parts feel less alone in their jobs. Over time, the parts that feel stuck in extremes can begin to soften, and the parts carrying old pain can finally get the support they deserved back then.
My approach
My approach is gentle, warm, and nonjudgmental. There’s room for all of you here—including the parts that hold shame, anger, fear, or pain. I don’t believe any part of you is “bad” or broken. Every part of you has a reason it exists, and we’ll honor that with patience and care.
My priority is creating a space where you feel safe enough to be honest and authentic—so that your healing can be deep and transformative.
Feel unstuck and shift the feeling of inner chatter
Experience renewed clarity and deepened self-compassion
Reconnecting to yourself and your body in a way that feels sustainable
Make intrinsically driven decisions related to your relationship with food
Shift in the way you show up in your relationships
IFS therapy can help you…
You’re not a problem to manage—you’re a person who deserves to be heard, seen, and held.
Together, we’ll meet your parts with care and help them soften what they’ve been carrying, so you can feel more inner peace, freedom, and real, sustainable change.
FAQs
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Frequently Asked Questions
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While IFS can be helpful in family work, it isn’t exclusively for family therapy.
“Internal Family Systems” refers to your inner world—as if it’s a family made up of different parts of you. Each part has a role it’s trying to play (often to protect you), even if its strategies don’t feel good anymore. When we understand your parts with curiosity and compassion, it becomes easier to feel more connected inside—and to create real, lasting change.
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IFS therapy can be very helpful for people navigating different concerns including but not limited to eating disorders, trauma, anxiety, relationship concerns, shame, people pleasing, and life transitions. IFS provides a path to building inner trust and connection. This allows the distress that accompanies these challenges to feel less consuming.
In couples and family therapy, it can improve communication, deepen understanding of self and others, and foster meaningful connection.
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IFS treats trauma by helping you build safety and trust inside before revisiting what hurts.
We begin by getting to know the protective parts of you—the ones that manage, numb, avoid, overthink, or stay on high alert to keep you safe. As those parts feel understood and begin to trust your grounded, compassionate core, we can gently turn toward the vulnerable parts that have been carrying the trauma. From there, healing becomes possible—at a pace your nervous system can tolerate.